Whakauruhia te Aapiri ake ki o Whakaaetanga
Anei he urupare tere ki te whakanui ake i te whai hua o o raatau tono. Ka rite ki tetahi kupu tere, he ngawari tenei ki te whakatinana, ki te wero hoki ki te rangatira. Heoi, kia mau tonu tenei tohu ki te whakaaro i te waahanga o to tono i muri mai ka awhina i a koe ki te arotahi me te whakamarama ake i te tono mo to whakaaro.
Whakamahia te Whakaaetanga me te Kaihanga Whakaoti i te Mind
Kua whai hua koe i te tirohanga me te whai i te kiritaki tika e hiahia ana ki te tuku tono mo koe.
Kua mohio koe kua whakawhanakehia e koe te korero , te hanga i te whakawhirinaki, kua tautuhia e koe te maha o o raatau matea ia koe, ka taea e to hua me to ratonga te whakaora.
Mahi pai!
Kua tae ki te wa ki te hoahoa i tetahi tono e whakaatu ana ki to kaihoko he pai ake te pai o te mahi pakihi ki a koe atu i era atu whiringa, tae atu ki te whiriwhiri ki te kore mahi. A, ki te kore to kaupapa e "whakamarama," ka raru koe ina tae mai te wa ki te kati i te mahi.
Ko tetahi o nga take matua kaore e pai ana te mahi, he pai te hanganga, he pai te hanga me te manawanui ki te mahi, na te mea he ngoikore te tono ki te kaihoko. Ko te ngoikoretanga nui o nga mea katoa ko te wa e tuhia ai to tono me te tangata kino.
Ko nga waahanga katoa e hiahiatia ana e koe me tuhi mo te tangata, mo te tangata ranei e ki ana ko "ae" ranei "no." Koinei pea, kaore ranei i te tangata i mahi tahi koe i roto i nga huarahi whakaheke hokohoko katoa.
He mea nui kia kitea wawe i roto i te huringa hokohoko ka waiho hei whakatau whakamutunga.
Te Korero ana i to Katoa Whakaahua
Ko te nuinga o nga kaihoko hokohoko e whakamahi ana i nga tono hei reo hei korero ki te kiritaki te haumi ka hiahia ratou ki te utu mo o raatau hua ratonga. Ko etahi ka tapiritia he take me mahi te kiritaki ki a ratau kamupene, engari he iti rawa nga mahi he tono e tu ana ki a ia ano.
Ko tetahi tono kua tuhia kua oti te tuhi me te whakaahua i nga waahi katoa o te huringa hokohoko me te whakamarama, ano, i te wa poto, me pehea e whakaotihia ai e tetahi hua, ratonga raanei tetahi waahanga kua tautuhia. Kaua e waiho he whakaahuatanga mo koe, mo to kamupene, mo te hua me te utu. He aha? No te mea kaore te kaihanga whakatau e tino whai hua i roto i te whitiki, kaore i "hokona" ki nga hiahia kua tautuhia me te whakaae ki tautuhi kua whakaritea, ko nga mea katoa e mahi ana ka tahuri ki te utu utu me te whakataurite ki a koe me nga tangata katoa e hiahia ana ki te tuku he tono.
Me whakamahara to tono ki a ratou mo o ratou mamae me te aha i timata ai ratou te rapu i tetahi otinga i te waa tuatahi. Me whakaatu ki a raatau, he aha te mea e whakaatu ana koe he aha taau e whakaaro nei, me pehea, ka tino whakatutukihia o raatau hiahia, te whakanui i to hua , te tiaki moni, te pai ake ranei o to raatau oranga.
Mena kaore te kaiwhakarite i whakauru ki a koe i nga waahi katoa o te ara, kaore koe e mohio kei te mohio ia ki nga raruraru e pa ana ki a raatau kaimahi me te kore e mohio he aha koe i pai ai ki te whakaoti i aua wero. Ko to tupono noa ki te tuku i tetahi karere whai mana ki tetahi kaiwhakatakoto whakatau kaore i uru atu ki a koe me to tono. Me taea e te kaihanga whakatau whakamutunga te korero i to tono me te tino mohio ko wai o ana raruraru pakihi kei te whakaaro koe ki te whakaoti, me pehea koe ki te whakaoti i te wero, me pehea te whakaoti rapanga me te aha me whiriwhiri ia koe me to kamupene ki whakaoti i tana raru.
Mena kei te whakaratohia e to tono he whakatakotoranga whānui o to whakautu, hoki atu me te tapiri i nga taipitopito taipitopito kia taea ai e koe te tu ki a ia ano. Ko te pauna nui e hiahia ana koe kia kaha ki te whakarato i nga korero maha hei tuku mo te whakatau ki te whakatau i te wa roa o te tono kia kore ai e whakakore i tetahi atu i te korero i te tono katoa.