He aha te mahi mehemea kaore koe i te Whakaaro he Haapanga, he Kore ranei
Kaore pea he wehi ki a koe. I roto i te maha o nga wa, Heoi, he pai te arotake o te arotake mahi.
Ka taea e koe te ako i te tini o nga urupare , e rua mo koe me to rangatira. Ka taea e koe te whakaaro ki a koe ki te whakapai ake i to mahi, engari ka taea ano hoki te korero ki a koe mehemea kaore e taea e to rangatira te pai. Koinei te mea ka taea e koe ki te whai i tetahi arotake kino kino:
Tatari I mua i to Whakautu
I muri mai i te arotake o te mahi kino, ka pouri koe, ka riri ranei. Kia tupato ki te urupare ki to rangatira i a koe i tenei ahua o te hinengaro. Ka taea e ou ngakau te korero i to korero ki to rangatira ka mihi koe i muri mai. Whakaorangia kia iti noa iho te ra i muri mai i mua i te korero, i te korero ranei.
Pānuihia me te Tātari i te Arotake
Tangohia i te 24 haora kia whakaaroarohia te aromatawai a to rangatira. Ngana ki te mohio ki nga urupare. A ani ia koe iho mehemea kaore i tino tika te whakapae i hoatu e ia ki a koe, ki te mea he hara noa koe. Ka taea e koe o raatau te whaainga, me ngana ki te tuhi.
Whakaoti Me Me Mehea Me Te Whakahaere Me To Tangata
Mehemea kaore e hiahiatia ana e ia, kaore koe e tutaki ki to kaiwhakahaere i muri i to whiwhinga i to arotake, engari me whakaaro kia mahi tonu koe.
Ki te kore koe e whakaae ki nga urupare a to rangatira, ka hoatu ki a koe he waahi ki te whakapuaki i to whakaaro. Ki te whakatau koe he tika tana whakapae, ka taea e koe te whakamahi i te whai waahi ki te hanga i tetahi mahere hei whakapai ake i to mahi. Mema ake nga whakaaro ki a koe ake ka taea e koe te tuhi i te hui.
Hanga he Tohu
Kaua e haere noa ki te tari o to rangatira, me te hiahia kia tutuki ki a koe.
Ka whakakorea e koe tana reremahi me te mahi i tenei ka puta he kino kino mo te hui. Engari, tuhia he whakaritenga i muri i te kawa i to mahi.
Whakaatuhia to Take, to Mahere ranei
Ka tutaki koe ki to rangatira, ka hiahia koe ki te whakamarama i te aha e kore ai koe e whakaae ki tana aromatawai, ki te whakaaro koe he tika, whakaatu i to mahere mo te whakapai ake i to mahi. Whakaritea mo tenei taahiraa ahakoa i mua i to waitohu i to whakatau i te mea ko te mea ka tupu wawe atu i te wa e hiahia ana koe. Anei nga rautaki hei whakamahi, i runga i to whakaaro mo te arotake me te kaupapa o te hui.
Mena ko te kaupapa o te hui me to rangatira ko te whakakore i ana kereme, koinei te mea me mahi koe:
- Me whakaae koe ki nga whakapae e tika ana me te korero mo te whakapai ake.
- Kawea mai nga korero e whakaaro ana koe he kore pono. Whakamāramatia he aha koe i ite ai i taua huarahi kia kaha ki te whakamahi tauira maama. Hei tauira, ki te mea ko to kaiwhakahaere kei a koe nga rautaki whakahaere taimaha, me whakaatu he tohu kei te mahi koe i nga waahanga. Whakaatuhia te īmēra me tetahi atu taunakitanga raima hei whakahoki ake i au korero.
- Whakaaetia nga urupare ka whakawhiwhia ki a koe i tenei huihuinga me te tono mo nga whakaaro mo nga whakapainga.
Mena kua tae mai koe ki te whakatau ko te arotake kino kino, he tika, koinei te mea me mahi koe:
- Kia mohio koe e mohio ana koe ki nga mea a to rangatira.
- Whakaatuhia he mahere hei whakapai ake i to mahi.
- A ani ia ia mo nga whakaaro hei awhina ia koe ki te mahi.
Me mohio ki te kore e mahi i tetahi o nga mea e whai ake nei i to hui:
- Eiaha e riri i to oe riri noa'tu te riri o oe.
- Kaua e tangi ahakoa te pouri o koe.
- Kaua e whakahe ki o hoa mahi.
- Kaua e waiho he tohenga.
A pee i te Up
Tukuna atu ki to kaiwhakahaere he īmēra e whakaatu ana i etahi o nga mea i korerohia e koe i to hui. Whakapaia te mahere whakapai ake i whakawhanakehia e koe. Tāngia te īmēra me te pupuri i tētahi wāhi haumaru i roto i te take e hiahia ana koe ki te taunakitanga kei te tango koe i nga huarahi tika katoa hei mahi pai ake.