Ka Awhina tenei Pukaaata Tauira ki a koe ki te Whakatakoto i te Rahuratanga
Te Ngau Hara
Ki te hiahia koe kei te tukino koe i te taha , ka hiahia koe ki te tuku whakapae ōkawa. He mahinga o to kamupene i te waahi. Ko te nuinga o enei e kii ana ki te korero ki to kaiwhakahaere, ki te Tari Tari Tangata ranei.
(Ko te tikanga, ki te mea ko to kaiwhakaako kei te whakararuraru ia koe, kaore koe e kii atu ki a ia, engari ki tona rangatira, ki te Kaihauturu Tangata ranei.) Engari, me pehea e whakaatu ai koe?
He maha nga iwi e hiahia ana ki te mahi i tenei ahua ki te kanohi, a, he pai te tikanga. He maatau ake mo te tangata ki te uiui i nga uiui tonu. I ētahi wā ka māmā ake te whakamārama i ngā kupu i te tuhituhi. Engari, he raru ano hoki. Ko nga mea e korero ana ki te kanohi e taea ana e te rorohiko-te rorohiko, a ka taea te kuware .
Ki te hiahia koe ki te mea ko Bob e tukino ana ia koe, he aha te mea ka puta ko Bob e korero ana i nga korero whakahianga. He mea ngawari ki to kaiwhakahaere, ki te HR ranei ki te whakakore, ki te whakakore ranei i to amuamu ina puta mai tera. I muri i nga mea katoa, he mea noa noa te kata, he tika?
Koinei te mea e taunaki ana kia tukuna e koe nga amuamu ma te tuhi, me te whai ake i runga i te mata ki te hui kanohi. Engari he aha te korero? Anei he tauira email ka taea e koe te tuku ki to kaiwhakahaere, ki te tari HR ranei.
Ko nga whakamaramatanga i roto i nga tohu e whakaatu ana he aha te mea nui o ia mema o te īmēra.
Ko te Whakaaetanga Whaiaro Whaimana Whaimana
Raina Raina: Ko te amuamu mo te raruraru o te wahine. [Koinei te tino waahanga o to amuamu. Ko te tuku i tenei hei raupapa kaupapa kaore e taea e tetahi te ki atu, "Kihai i mohio ahau kei te raru ia i te taatai." Kaore e taea e ratou, i te ture, te whakarereke i to amuamu ina timata koe i taua huarahi.]
E Jane Jane, me a Stacy, [Na te tuku atu i to kaiwhakahaere, Jane, me te kaiwhakahaere HR, Stacy, kei te tiaki koe i nga tangata katoa i roto i te kapiti. He wa waimarie ka hiahia koe ki te tuku atu ki te HR me anake ki to rangatira, engari ki te kore e whai take nui ki te pupuri i tetahi o nga waahanga e rua mai i te kapiti, tukua atu kia rua.
Kei te tuhituhi ahau ki te whakamōhio atu ki a Bob kua tukinohia ahau e Bob. [Korerotia ano tenei, he tika, he tika i te timatanga.]
Ko nga mahi e whai ake nei kua tupu:
- I te marama kotahi i mua, ka aru a Bob i taku motokā, ka ui mai ki ahau i te ra. I ki ahau kaore ahau i pai, ka mahue. Kihai i whakaarohia e ahau tetahi mea.
- I te Hune 1, 2017, ka ui ano a Bob ki a au. I korero atu ahau ki a ia, kaore ahau e pai ki te noho wehe i te mahi me te ora whaiaro. I korerotia e ahau ki a Steve raua ko Karen i te ra i muri mai ka ui a Bob ki a au.
- I te Pipiri 3, 2017, ka tukuna mai e Bob he īmene e whakaatu ana i tana hiahia ki te taatai i ahau, me te korero mai ki ahau he "wera." (Kei te honohia te email). I whakautu ahau (kua pirihia), "Kaua e whakapuaki mai mo nga take kore-pakihi."
- I te Pipiri 9, 2017, ka tukuna mai e Bob he karere kuputuhi i whakaurua ki a ia he whakaahua o tona mate. I mukua tenei.
- I te Pipiri 9, 2017, ka ui atu au ki a Jane kia whakawakia ahau ki tetahi kaupapa rereke no te mea e raru ana a Bob. Kaore ia i pai ki te whakamahara i ahau, engari kihai ahau i korero ki a ia mo te īmēra me te pikitia.
- I te Pipiri 10, 2017, ka whai a Bob ki ahau ki taku kaa, ka whakawaihia ahau kia kaua e tutaki ia ia. E whakapono ana ahau ko Richard Thompson, mai i te kaute, kei roto i te waahi waka i taua wa, engari kaore au i te mohio ki te mea ka rongo ia i tetahi mea.
- I te Pipiri 13, 2017, ka korero a Bob ki a au i roto i te hui kaimahi. Ko Steve, Karen, Jane, Chelsea, me Justin i reira. I korero a Jane ki a Bob kia tukituki.
- I te Pipiri 15, 2017, ka tukuna mai e Bob he īmene ki a au mehemea kaore ahau i haere tahi me ia, ka korerotia e ia ki a Jane, kua tohua e ahau nga kiriata hokohoko i hanga e ahau mo te hui a-rohe. (Kei te honohia te email.)
[Kia mahara kei te whakahua ia i nga mea katoa, tae noa ki te mea e kore e rawe ana ia ki te tuhi. Ko te mea tuatahi kaore i tino raruraru-te tono ki tetahi hoa mahi i te ra kaore e tika. Engari, e whakaatu ana i te wa i timata ai te whanonga a Bob, me te pehea i hohoro ai te kore e tika.
Waihoki, tuhi ka hoatu e ia nga ingoa o nga kaiwhakaatu whaitake. Ka awhina i te wa e timata ana i ta raatau rangahau.]
Mauruuru nui koe mo te titiro ki tenei kaupapa mo au. He harikoa ahau ki te hoatu ki a koe etahi atu korero ka hiahiatia. Ka tino hiahia ahau ki a Bob kia waiho maatau anake kia taea e au taku mahi.
Ma te pono,
Holly Jones.
I muri mai i te Puka Whakataunga Whaimana
Koinei. Kaore e hiahia ana koe ki te whakamahi i nga kupu whaimana. E mohio ana to kaiwhakahaere me to tari a te HR he mea he ture te tukino i te taatai me te tango mai i reira. Ka taea e koe te tumanako kia kore e whakapono noa koe ki to taha o te korero mai i te timatanga, no te mea ko ta ratou kawenga ki te whakatata ki tenei amuamu mai i te tirohanga kore.
Ka whakahaerehia e ratou he tirotiro . I etahi wa, pera i te amuamu mo Bob e titiro ana ki te pakiwaitara i roto i tana poraka tuwhera, kaore e hiahia ana to korero ki a Bob nana i amuamu. Engari, no te mea he take tenei e kiihia ana e ia he tukino i tetahi hoa mahi, ka mohio ia ko wai nana i tuku te amuamu.
Ka whakakore te ture i te utu mo te whakapae mo te raruraru o te wahine , na ko to rangatira me te tari HR kaore e whiua koe i tetahi ara mo te mahi i tenei amuamu.
Mena kaore to kamupene e aro ki te take, ka taea e koe te tuku i tetahi amuamu ki te EEOC , ki te utu i to röia röia mahi hei äwhina i tö take.