Me pehea te huri i te Negativity i te Mahinga Mahi ki te Huri
Ka kite koe i tetahi raruraru i te mahi, kei te amuamu koe ki o hoa mahi ranei kei te ngana koe ki te mahi i tetahi mea hei whakatika? Ki te mea kei te amuamu koe, kei te tangi, kaore he pai e puta mai. Ko te taiao o te ahumahi he taiao. Whakawakia e tetahi hoa mahi, ka whakawakia ano e ia, ka pera ano. I mua i te roa, ko te whakaaro kino o tetahi tangata ka horahia ki te rima atu me te 10 atu, me te pera ano.
Hei whakaatu i te tauira o runga ake nei, ko te tikanga o te whakawhitinga i roto i te taiao mahi e rite ana ki te ahi e horahia ana i roto i te tipu o te waatea. I te wa roa, ka mahi katoa nga tangata i te korero mo nga raruraru, a ehara i te mea kaore e whakaotihia ana e ratou, kaore pea he mahi atu. Ko te hua ka hemo te hua.
He aha koe ka ngaro ai i te aronga kino
Ehara i te mea miharo ko nga pukupuku e kore e ahuareka ki nga kaimahi e kaore tonu ana. Mena ka whiwhi koe i te ingoa ko Nelly Nelly, ka tukuna koe e koe ki te rarangi kaimahi tino iti rawa o te rangatira. Na te aha ka taea e koe te mahi, kaore koe e kite i nga mea ehara i te huarahi e whakaarohia ana e koe? He pai ke ki te kopaki i to mangai kia kore ai koe e whakawhānui i te waahi o te waahi mahi? He pai ake te korero i tetahi mea?
Ka taea te whakatau i tetahi raruraru ka uru mai tetahi ki a ia engari ki te kore koe e whakamahere kia whai hua, kia mau ki o koe whakaaro.
Ki te hiahia koe, e mohiotia ana he raruraru raruraru, kaua he kaipupuri, korero. Ki te mahi koe i te huarahi tika, ka puta ke koe i te huringa pai ka taea e koe te mahi nui ki te whakapai ake i to taiao mahi. Engari ki te whakatairanga i te mana o to rangatira, ka waiho pea hei kaiwhiwhi mo tona maioha .
Anei nga mea e rima e taea e koe hei mahi ia koe ki te ngaro i te whakaaro kino me te whakaputa i te panoni.
1. Kaua e ngana ki te Whakatika i te mea e kore e pakaruhia
I etahi wa ka kite i nga raruraru kaore i te noho. Hei tauira, kaore koe e hiahia ki te mahi i tetahi mea i to waahi mahi. Ka taea e koe te whakaaro kei reira he huarahi pai atu hei mahi engari ehara i te mea he tika to aromatawai. I mua i te korero i tetahi mea, tangohia he wa poto ki te whakaaro mo taua mea. A ani ia koe iho mehemea he pai ake to ara mehemea he rere ke te mahi i tetahi mea.
2. Whakaritea to Whakawakanga ma nga Aratohu Tika
Mena kei te amuamu koe ki o hoa mahi, ko nga mea katoa e mahi ana koe ka horahia te koreerenga. A, ki te mea kua aro koe ki tenei tuhinga, kei te mohio koe na koinei te mea e hiahia ana koe kia kaua e mahi. Whakaahuatia ko wai kei roto i to whakahaere ko te tangata tika me korero ki a koe mo o raatau raruraru. Kei te hiahia koe ki te kohikohi i tetahi tangata e pai ana ki a koe whakaaro, engari me tino mohio koe kaore koe e whakawhiti i te tangata, hei tauira, ko te upoko o to rangatira.
3. Homai noa te Whakangungu Hanga
Ka taea e te tangata te amuamu. Mena e hiahia ana koe ki te mahi i etahi atu mea kaore pea ka whakarereketia, me whai whakaaro koe mo te whakaoti i nga raru e raruraru ana koe. I mua i a koe ki te tuku i to amuamu ki te tangata tika, mahi i to rangahau kia taea ai e koe te tiki ake me nga rongoā ka taea.
Na ka whakamahi i o raatau whakaaro nui ki te aromatawai i ia takitahi me te whakatau ko wai e hua ki a koe nga hua pai.
4. Whakawhiti In
Kia rite ki te tango i o ringaringa paru. Mena ka tuhia e koe he raruraru me te whakaatu i te raupapa o nga rongoā ka taea, me whakarite ki te awhina i te whakatinanatanga. Ka whakaatu tenei ki to kaiwhakahaere kei te whai koe i tetahi waahi ki te whakapai ake i nga painga ka painga ki te kamupene.
5. Te mohio ki te wa hei whakaara ake
He aha e whakaarohia ana e koe he take nui, kaore pea i te kotahi ki te tangata e whakahua ana koe i to aronga. Mena he raruraru noa iho te raruraru, kei a koe anake te mahi, me te rapu ranei i tetahi atu mahi. Kaore he mea ka taea e koe te whakarereke i tona hinengaro.
Mena he raruraru te raruraru, hei tauira, ka uru atu ki te mea he ture kore-kore ranei, kei te whaitake ranei i te kino o te kamupene, ka taea e koe te whakanui ake i to amuamu i te raina o te whakahau.
He mea kino te nekehanga, he kino hoki te mahi ki a koe, engari me ui koe mehemea ka taea e koe te noho ki a koe mehemea kaore koe e mahi.